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Posted on Jun 10, 2006 at 09:19 AM

This is a question that someday will have a definitive answer. I dont think that love should have any color at all! I am not just attracted to one race. I am attracted to good people. Color doesnt matter to me. The stigma attached to 2 different people loving eachother and building together is crazy! I would never tell my kids they should be with a certain race, just someone that is good for them!

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Posted on Jun 21, 2015 at 02:33 PM

Quoting silverlinen:

Well..don't get me started. :)  Let me count the ways!  Definitely attracted to the dark smooth skin, the way they smells, (yes they do have a distinct scent that is different from white men) their full lips, the way their white teeth flash against their dark features, the sound of their voice, the swwagger when they walk (some have this), their confidence etc. etc. etc.  It's surprising how different black men really are from white men in so many ways. My preference is black men but I am open to real love from a genuine man of any race.



I didn't know that black men had a distinct scent that's different from white men. I guess you learn something new everyday.



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Posted on Jun 11, 2015 at 06:12 PM

Well for me, there are several things that attract me to white women. But two of those things are: the long and silky hair, and the ivory skin of course. The whiter the better. Haha! 😃 



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Posted on Mar 27, 2013 at 08:27 PM

For me it's not so much a color that I am attracted to. I like men. If they carry themselves with confidence, can hold an intelligent conversation for more than one conversation are sexually aware of themselves without being crude, strong but not over powering to the point where I feel unsafe. Genuinely sincere with a beautiful sense of their spirituality is what attracts me to a man of any color. I have been in love with and married to a white man, and have be in love with a black man, but each of them had their own special attributes that attracted me to them aside from those few things I noted previously. 

I have 4 brothers and they all have different taste in women....the joke in the family is that we date/marry outside our "race" because we have a lot of cousins and we haven't kept track of them all. And getting a couple of invitations to the same family reunion isn't funny!! True story my stepdad and mother were 13th cousins.

I'm on this website to broaden my choices. 


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Posted on Nov 14, 2007 at 07:52 PM

I have thought about this question so much, as my preference is pretty strong and being that I am a firm believer in the oneness of all mankind, I had to check myself on this again and again. I keep coming back to this. I have always been attracted to the music from Black culture, that I was born with. But then as time went on I found myself being more passionately involved in other things which bring me continually back to the Black Community. Some cultural, like singing Gospel music, going to Black open mike poetry, Global hip hop, (the socially conscious stuff) and groups desiring to heal racism and concerned with injustice. All of what we love, what fills our memory banks, what we are drawn towards, what brings passion to our hearts - that?s what cause's attraction. So I do love Black men. I find them potentially powerful beyond measure. I have met educated, spiritual, strong Black men who respect women, take care of their families, are involved in the community and honestly, I believe they are Americas hope and perhaps even the worlds. So, I have not just drifted to this site out of curiosity.

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Posted on Nov 14, 2007 at 03:29 PM


When (he)she's hot, she's hot, when she's not, she' not. Why make it more complicated than that?
, the simple life.....

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Posted on Nov 14, 2007 at 08:34 AM

well I want to know all about the lady I am with. I want her to know me and my culture, I( am a black man that has history. donnijoe

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Posted on Nov 12, 2007 at 04:19 AM

When (he)she's hot, she's hot, when she's not, she' not. Why make it more complicated than that?

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Posted on Oct 26, 2007 at 10:36 PM

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Posted on Oct 22, 2007 at 01:47 PM

Isn't it an interracial site? Everyone who has a profile here is attracted to the opposite race, but I think each of us for different reasons...

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Posted on Sep 30, 2007 at 08:20 PM

I totally agree with the statement as a whole. However, the word "attraction" must be dissected into many different layers. For instance: A. I am socially attracted to good, honest, hard working, decisive, family oriented people. B. I am visually attracted to people, food, things, etc... that are pleasing to the eyes C. I am sexually attracted (and date exclusively) to white males. There are several, several layers to the word attraction. Why should anyone subject themselves, in any of the dissected categories, to less than they feel they deserve. I find the actors Will Smith and Jamie Fox to be extremely visually attractive and (if I were 20 years younger) I would love to party with them and remain good friends. However, I would not date or have intimate relations with either of them because I am not sexually attracted to them. In conclusion, I must ask...which is better/worse: 1)being romantically involved with someone of the same race, however there is no love, passion or adoration. or 2)being romantically involved with someone of a different race, where there is love, passion or adoration. Life is too short to settle or be indecisive.

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Posted on Feb 13, 2007 at 12:16 AM

sniff...!!! sniff...!!! sniff...!!! i smell sumfin' burnin'..... sniff...!!! sniff...!!! smoke alarms workin'.... just replaced the batteries last week.... tested the new sprinkler system..... smoke in the hallway...??? someone runnin' the fryers in the room again.....??? i'ld suggest gas masks 'till the smoke clears......

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Posted on Feb 12, 2007 at 05:51 PM

It's funny, when you call someone out, the automatically state that you are condescending ... curious.... as i stated before and i'll re-instate again....I DON'T CARE IF YOUR PREFERENCE IS ANOTHER RACE.... all i'm saying is if you state your likes no need to bash another ...you were the one who stated "TUDE OF BLACK WOMEN"...oh was I wrong?... funny, i also addressed iebonyking about his generalization of WHITE MEN...didn't see him getting all upset....just like you have the right to comment and critize what ever i say... i have the right also...glad you found my blog interesting....but to try and use it as an example here...sorry lacks merit...oh, that's right , because i said you seem very BITTER AND ANGRY....well, that's how you sound....who exactly is bashing you?...it's the comments that you make....if being logical and showing a different point of view is a way of talking down to people, then so be it .... yes..wisdom is subjective...but you can avoid the blogs that i'm on, ignore my posts, whatever keeps u happy....but i'm not initmated by anyone.... last time ...i knew i should not have re-read this post ....NOONE NEEDS TO JUSTIFY WHO THEY DATE....moreno wasn't bashing you, it's sad you can't see his point ...so what if his preference is white only...at least he's not on here saying that he dates white because he has a problem with black females....we (all black females) do not need anymore reinforcement of a stereotype especially from our own....wise out

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Posted on Feb 09, 2007 at 01:00 AM

kdean64 took the words out of my mouth. Very well said and I conur with his statement 100%

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Posted on Feb 09, 2007 at 12:14 AM


maybe it is a personality, a look or just a certain gesture that attracts us to a certain type. i myself have a strong attraction to latino men. there is just something sexy about them to me.
you've said the magic word, the key to the treasure chest....'ATTRACTION'......it keeps everything simple.... color, curls, body, shape.... are all tangential unless you have an MA, Phd, Doctorate in social sciences, psychology and a direct link to Freud's here after..... we have the distinction of being and human and able to 'cop' to a rationale to give reason why we want to play pretzel with someone that widens our eyes or flares our nostrils.... now phere'moan' detectives think they have discovered the key to s_xual attraction in male sweat.... there goes my once a week..... but i WILL take that sponge bath.....loufah to exfoliate..... ahhhhhhhhhh yessssssss, DD...... i remember her well.......

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Posted on Feb 08, 2007 at 07:43 PM


stick it RUMP i'll take that as a compliment... but i will 'stick it' when moved to do so(must be myopic... missed my post on ground hog day....)...... not when goaded.... even by a double D.......enjoy the crossfire..... you make a good target......

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Posted on Feb 08, 2007 at 06:29 PM

actually i was never attracted to black men before. now i find myself checking some them out. maybe it is a personality, a look or just a certain gesture that attracts us to a certain type. i myself have a strong attraction to latino men. there is just something sexy about them to me.

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Posted on Feb 07, 2007 at 06:16 AM

so, i'll try to make this quick and then i'm gone again, 747...u are intentionally missing my point or u are not understanding ... it is withnin ur right to date whatever race that u choose..my concern was that in order to explain ur likes u felt the need to put down Black women..there was another female on here, who was bashing black men and white women, i addressed her the same way...she is no longer on the site...you can't make comments on a public blog and be offended when people address it...you are not a child!! and yes I saw your comments on solong...whose the idiots u are refering to?...but i see that you are extremely BITTER & ANGRY....and i'm studying to be a nurse not a psychologist...so the same retort, as i gave DIVADONNA...the female counterpart to u...i hope u find what u are looking for....but i will do as u requested, i shall no longer adress anything to u...i like people who can debate and discuss things .....not throw temper tantrums!!....papi, if you are reading this, lol..

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Posted on Feb 05, 2007 at 11:39 PM

MORENO....I WILL AGREE WITH YOU ON THAT, WEATHER U LIKE BLACK OR WHITE, JUST STATE IT WITHOUT BASHING THE EITHER SIDE. YEAH I FELLING A WHITE WOMEN RIGHT NOW, BUT I AM STILL DOWN FOR A HOT BLACK WOMAN ......I MEAN,..DID YOU SEE ALICA KEYS IN "SMOKIN ACES", SHE AIN'T NO JOKE.

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Posted on Feb 05, 2007 at 04:03 PM

moreno we need more brothers like u on here....it's a good thing Diva is gone ...cause girlfriend would have been so happy to point out her "theories" are right...i think it is disgusting how some men and women put down their own race as a means for justification for your preference, it makes you wonder, if they suffer from "self-hate"....i've dated interracially for 11 years...arabic, russian, chinese, greek, latino, white, black (rare, not for lack of trying!!), jewish etc....but the one thing i have never done is put down my race or forget who I am... being liberated does not mean being open to others, but being open to your own as well...racism is alive and well not only outside of your ethnicity but whitin and I'm getting tired of defending myself to my own people....I'm an educated, loving, opinionated, strong, black, west-indian, canadian female and i believe in loving whoever I'm with and in treating him with respect and there are many like me....STOP WITH THE HATE....i love ALL my sistas, that includes EVERY race..and there are some BEEOTCHES in all, But there are great ones as well...men, there has to been at least one good Black woman in your life who gave you hope....focus on that...forget the idiots!! ...god damn I wonder what Dr. Martin Luther King would say with this dilema of self-hate....we want equality but can't even respect ourselves....but thank god for the good ones...at least i know there are good teachers out there for the next generation.

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