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Posted on Apr 12, 2015 at 05:35 PM

The shirtless pictures are everywhere. Seems like everyone wants to take their shirts off these days...

 

Ladies, whenever you click on a man's profile and view his photo album, and you see him just standing there with no shirt on, what kind of thoughts go through your head? Are you instantly turned off by seeing the man with his bare chest exposed, or do you happen to like it?

 

Are you okay with seeing pictures of men in their bathrooms taking pictures of themselves with no shirt on, or would you rather have something left to the imagination?

 

Or maybe you prefer to see men's shirtless pictures because you're a bit curious to know what a guy's physique looks like before you begin talking to him? Or do you find the shirtless pictures to be downright distasteful?

 

And does it make you wonder if a man with a photo album full of shirtless pictures has any substance to himself, beyond the shirtless pictures? Does it send you a signal that the only thing that this man probably has to offer a woman is his body - and his bare chest?

 

Any thoughts on this topic? 


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Posted on Sep 18, 2017 at 05:54 PM

Is that the same OKCupid survey that said AA Women are the least to be contacted?  "Enough said," for what I think of OKCupid surveys. She turns and walks away ... 

 

Surveys are dependent on the the people who choose to answer the surveys ... i.e. not reliable at all. 

 

Possible Reasons for Results

Women who answered the survey were the same women who contacted shirtless men. The women who don't contact shirtless men didn't answer the survey.

Women who use OKCupid are women who tend to contact men with shirtless photos.

 

I could go on but I think you get the picture.

 

Best regards.


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Posted on Sep 18, 2017 at 12:10 PM

Quoting removed_Nefertiti51_111308167:

Hi everyone, when I see a man on a dating site and his profile pic is himself without a shirt or wearing a wife-beater in my opinion says "tacky".  Again my opinion he is cocky and arrogant and all he is interested in is sex.



The following pie graphs are from an independent study which compare the types of pictures that guys and girls tend to post on their profiles. I found it to be very interesting.

And thanks for your comment, by the way. 


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Posted on Sep 17, 2017 at 01:01 PM

I do not take such  men  seriously ; because these types of men are just makes profiles for sex and adventure


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Posted on Sep 17, 2017 at 11:47 AM

A recent analysis conducted by OKCupid revealed that men with shirtless profile pictures surprisingly receive responses MORE FREQUENTLY from women, and often they're even contacted first by women. I was shocked to learn this information. So, why do you think that is? 

 



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Posted on Sep 14, 2017 at 11:37 PM

I find it tacky and a turnoff.

 


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Posted on Sep 11, 2017 at 04:43 PM

Quoting Elle2706:

Oh my... I just can't take it anymore! Shirtless pictures are a complete turn off for me. They make a woman wonder if it's the only thing the guy has to offer. Although I might be wrong, but as soon as I see such pictures I assume that the guy is probably a pervert looking for naive girls to have fun online, can't take him seriously...it's a no for me. 

 

PS: Thanks for pointing that out. 



Well said. Thank you very much for stopping by to share your opinion on the topic. I hope that some of these guys in question could read your comment.



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Posted on Sep 09, 2017 at 01:04 AM

Oh my... I just can't take it anymore! Shirtless pictures are a complete turn off for me. They make a woman wonder if it's the only thing the guy has to offer. Although I might be wrong, but as soon as I see such pictures I assume that the guy is probably a pervert looking for naive girls to have fun online, can't take him seriously...it's a no for me. 

 

PS: Thanks for pointing that out. 


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Posted on Sep 08, 2017 at 11:51 AM

Quoting removed_allycatt982000_111036946:

You're right. Yesterday I had my big level-set and while I'm not happy, I'm moving forward. It doesn't mean I've given into the madness. I'm just dusting off my shoulders and keeping it moving. Well at least that is my official response for today. 



Sounds good to me. Just dust off your shoulders and keep moving forward. Take care. 



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Posted on Aug 25, 2017 at 04:32 PM

Quoting Karasavde:

I literally received one the other day and just sat there with my head down, blank look on my face, glaring at the screen. It took me well over an hour to reply because I was unsure what to say...sort of 😉

I had words, no doubt. The energy that bubbles over from within like a volcano spews forth its fiery lava was being redirected to my fingers. I was typing away; the swiftest fingers in the land. 

 

I suppose the above did not leave anything to the imagination. Though it is important to be attracted to who ever you are dealing with, I do not care for them from a stranger. I want you to save that, reveal your heart to me & allow your body to be exposed organically.

I do however, love receiving pictures like that from a man I'm with. If I'm with someone, unexpected pictures of each other randomly are fun. What's better than getting a pic of your lady in the middle of your work day, rather a sweet selfie or a little exposure to get the blood flowing, just certainly not with a stranger or someone I hardly know.



Well said.



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Posted on Aug 22, 2017 at 11:48 AM

Quoting JAlady1973:

I would pass on the profile as well.



I can't say that I blame you. 



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Posted on Aug 21, 2017 at 02:41 AM

Quoting JAlady1973:

I would pass on the profile as well.



Does it make you wonder if the man has anything of substance to bring to the table besides his body?



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Posted on Aug 20, 2017 at 02:30 PM

Quoting Kamaria_86:

Instant turn off. No class



Thanks for your input.



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Posted on Jun 28, 2017 at 11:33 PM

On that subject, there are some man that I would not even want a face pic in my inbox of and then there are some men that I just shake my head at when I get their pic and then there are some men that just know how to take a pic without making it look tacky, trite or desperate. 

 

I enjoy physical fitness and therefore I would like my guy to show some kind of inclination that he values his himself, his health and his body. On a side note, you did your pics very tastefully!

 

At the end of the day, having a good body requires a ton of work, discipline and dedication.  If you got it, show it off.  Who cares!  It's like driving a Lamborghini, don't cover it up.  Show it off and take care of it.  Eventually, everything has an expiration date.


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Posted on May 02, 2017 at 08:53 PM

I literally received one the other day and just sat there with my head down, blank look on my face, glaring at the screen. It took me well over an hour to reply because I was unsure what to say...sort of 😉

I had words, no doubt. The energy that bubbles over from within like a volcano spews forth its fiery lava was being redirected to my fingers. I was typing away; the swiftest fingers in the land. 

 

I suppose the above did not leave anything to the imagination. Though it is important to be attracted to who ever you are dealing with, I do not care for them from a stranger. I want you to save that, reveal your heart to me & allow your body to be exposed organically.

I do however, love receiving pictures like that from a man I'm with. If I'm with someone, unexpected pictures of each other randomly are fun. What's better than getting a pic of your lady in the middle of your work day, rather a sweet selfie or a little exposure to get the blood flowing, just certainly not with a stranger or someone I hardly know.


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Posted on Dec 17, 2016 at 03:20 PM

Instant turn off. No class


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Posted on Dec 15, 2016 at 03:27 PM

Quoting JAlady1973:

I would pass on the profile as well.



I think such pictures are associated with being low-class.



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Posted on Dec 15, 2016 at 03:24 PM

Quoting Weol2016:

If he want to share a shirtless picture, go for it. He might be proud of his body. If I really wanted to know, I would ask him about the picture? Who am I to judge...? I will say in context of posting he shouldn't be a show-off. 



First you say "who am I to judge," but then you say "he shouldn't be a show-off." But in order to determine if he is or isn't a show-off, aren't you indeed judging him?



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Posted on Sep 12, 2016 at 06:27 PM

Hi everyone, when I see a man on a dating site and his profile pic is himself without a shirt or wearing a wife-beater in my opinion says "tacky".  Again my opinion he is cocky and arrogant and all he is interested in is sex.


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Posted on Aug 19, 2016 at 09:36 PM

I would pass on the profile as well.


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